The success in the life of person depends on his personality. And personality of a person depends on his self esteem. Self esteem is the driving power that provides energy for your actions. The enthusiasm and energy to act in a positive manner is derived form self esteem. Self esteem form the foundation for the ability of a person to say and do the right things. Self esteem is different from self confidence. Self esteem is the level and value that you give to yourself. People with high self esteem will think themselves to be wonderful and will be able to act with more self confidence. People with high self esteem can seldom fail due to the infinite flow of energy source from the mind. So, self esteem is the most important factor for the success of a person. A person’s ultimate aim should be to increase your self esteem.
A person has to carefully build and maintain their self esteem as they are maintaining their physical fitness. You are fully responsible for maintaining the strength of your mind and body. There are basically six elements of life that is directly liked to the self esteem of a person. They are the goals, standards, success, experience, comparison, recognition and rewards that you encounter in your life.
You must be able to set your goals appropriately. The correct way in which you set your goals and achievement of these goals in a timely manner will make you feel better. You will feel more confident when you are able to accomplish your goals as planned.
You must be able to set clear standards and values for your life. A person with self esteem will be able to act according to the values they consider to be important. When the values and ideals are higher, then you will consider yourself as a person with higher self esteem.
The experience of a person is important for building self esteem. The goals and standards you set are important to obtain positive experiences. Simplify your goals so that it can be completed as you have planned. Your self esteem will increase when you are able to achieve your target.
A person with higher self esteem should be able to compare themselves with others positively. You must have the ability to know what you are doing. Always try to do things better than other successful people. You must try to compare yourself only with successful people and study their performance to improve.
Recognition of you achievements by others will always help to increase your self esteem. You should let others know about your achievements. When you are appreciated by someone who you considers to be important your self esteem will go up.
You must be rewarded suitably according to your accomplishments. The bonus, better office, cars and trophies are rewards that recognize your accomplishments. If the existing situation does not provide circumstances for rewards, you should try to create your own system for rewarding yourself.